Mind + Body + Spirit

SelfEsteemComesFromWithin

Mind + Body + Spirit = Fitness

What does this really mean?

We are more than a physical body. Our logic may deem that losing weight is solely associated with the physical body. The physical body reflects the physical aspects of too much weight. It harbors painful joints, illness, or chronic sleep issues.

If you think about it, what are the reasons the extra weight crept on, and you were unable to stop it from happening?

Our minds think thoughts all the time. The mind doesn’t shut down, unless we allow it to be quiet. To reach this “quiet” state, we can meditate, drink a glass of wine, or exercise. The question becomes, do the thoughts stop, slow down, become clear, or continue uninterrupted?

What are these thoughts say about ourselves, our family, our situation, someone else. . .

Do these thoughts sound like our parents? Our partners/spouses? Our friends? Our children? Our self?

These thoughts are an integral part of whether we will be successful in losing excessive weight. Our self-talk reflects our feelings about our self, and only our self. It can be our private “hell” or moral support.

The spirit portion isn’t necessarily clear cut as the body or the mind. It is something less physically tangible. Part of it is the energy flow through the physical body, mind, and energy field surrounding the body. It is the soul essence. It is that part that is activated when following “your heart” or dreams.

Each of these 3 pieces influence our physical presence in the world. Each is equally important to address, when making life changes. Losing weight is a major life change. It takes courage, strength, and determination. It is one of the most important choices we can make, and it’s solely for ourselves.

Our self esteem is derived from a balance of these 3 pieces in our being. I’ll be talking further on each piece in upcoming blog entries.

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Take an inventory of these 3 pieces of your being. Try to be unbiased in your assessments. Think about what is working, and what may need to change. More later. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

 

Weight Loss Takes Time

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We’re in the heat of the summer, and realistically it’s time to start thinking about weight loss for the Holidays. It takes time to divest one’s self of the extra pounds that gather around the middle of our bodies, or to gain physical fitness.

Looking to lose a clothing size or two?

Want to keep it off?

It takes some time to accomplish these goals. It requires re-learning how to eat, and nurture your body. These habits take time to become part of your lifestyle. Being a healthy weight and maintaining it requires changes in your life.

It’s easy to lose 10 pounds. It’s easier to gain 10 pounds. How many “10 pound” increments do we gain before we decide to change? One day, we wake up and realize we gained 50, 100, or 200 pounds. It can be depressing and overwhelming.

So, want to lose weight for the Holidays? Want to give yourself the best present ever?

Then, now is the time to start on your journey!

I am coaching a Shakeology Challenge the week after Labor Day. It’s free to join the group. The Shakeology cost depends on how much you purchase. Sample packets are $35 + shipping. A month supply costs $97 + shipping for coaches, and a little more for non-coaches.

The question is. . .Are you ready for a lifestyle change that will help you increase your wellness, self-esteem, and fitness level? Are you ready for your clothes to fit better?

Contact me either here, through Facebook, or send me an email (karen@fitbodyadventure.com).

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Being Present In Your Life

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Being present in the current moment is the foundation of life, and successful weight loss. Being present means being aware of the events unfolding around yourself at any point in time. It means finding the joy and happiness of being alive.

Often, weight loss seems like a daunting task, and a lot of work. It’s only one way how to perceive the process. What if it was an adventure to your true authentic self?

What if life is an adventure filled with challenges for us to overcome?

Perception of events is Everything!

I look at weight loss as an opportunity to become myself. It offers an opportunity to make lifestyle changes, and to feel better. At almost 55, I feel better than when I was 50. Age does not relegate us to a medicine cabinet full of prescription drugs and obesity.

In my 40’s, my doctor told me that I could never lose the weight, and not to worry about it. It triggered the thought “So what! I’m 40. What difference should that make in attaining my fitness and weight loss goals?”

We have a choice. We make these choices with every decision we make. It comes down to the food we put in our bodies, whether we go for a walk, or how we react to a situation. It is all part of our make-up, and how we perceive our lives.

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Take time to look at your attitudes towards food, physical activity, and weight loss. Decide if these attitudes contribute to your fitness and weight loss goals. If not, decide if you want to change them. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

 

Afraid of Change. . .

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Afraid of Change? Don’t like Change? Have difficulty with Change?

If so, know that you’re not alone. Many people are afraid of or have difficulty with change. Yet, change is the only constant in the Universe.

Think about this. . .

Our body weight changes daily. Friends come and go. Family relationships are in constant flux. We are mobile and constantly moving. Our workplace is in constant change due to the business climate.

Even our personal lives are in constant change, even if we want to deny it.

Being in the present means embracing the constant change, celebrating it, and adapting to it with a positive attitude. It is truly up to us to create the atmosphere in our own lives.

On a personal level, a lot of the changes are fueled by our personal choices, view points, and attitude. Don’t like something? Make a conscious decision to change it. It may not happen immediately, but the change will happen.

Part of the journey of weight loss or fitness is embracing change. Our bodies are going to change. Our clothing sizes are going to change. Our reflection in the mirror is going to change. Our attitudes are going to change. The people around us are going to continue to change.

Weight loss and fitness gains is about change! If you want it, expect and embrace the changes that will come your way. It will happen!

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Do you like change? If not, why not? How can it become easier to accept change? What would you need to do to accept changes in your life? Journal writing is a great way to explore these ideas. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Too Busy?

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The easiest excuse for avoiding weight loss and fitness is “I’m too busy!”

Now, let that sink in a bit.

How can one be too busy to take care of themselves, their health, and their state of being? I think the answer is should be “I’m too afraid to face _______.”

We don’t put on the extra pounds due to being part of the present and enjoying life. The extra pounds come on because of something. It could be an injury, an illness, a health issue, a psychological issue, stress, trauma. . .I think you get the picture.

We store the energy of these “things” in our bodies. It manifests itself as extra weight, physical and/or emotional pain, our attitudes, and in other ways both seen / unseen.

The first step to “finding” the time is to make fitness and wellness a priority. When we decide something is important, we give our time freely to the activity.

There is always time for what we truly want to do. . .

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Is weight loss, wellness, or fitness important to you? If so, are you will willing to invest the time into yourself? Scared? Explore the reasons why through journal writing or other self-exploration activity. Find ways to overcome the fear, and become part of your life. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

From Athlete to Obese to Healthy

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Through out my life, I’ve never felt good about myself. I was an athlete in my teenage years. I went from athlete to coach and instructor. I still didn’t feel good about myself. I pushed and kept moving forward, never realizing the power of self-talk.

Then, I changed. I realized that I was sabotaging myself in all my life endeavors. It’s taken years, but worth every moment of effort.

So. . .

Self talk seeps up from our subconscious to a quiet, constant whisper in our minds. We may or may not even hear it.

It is the thought “I can never get it right” or “How stupid of me” or “Why does this always happen to me.”

These thoughts stem from the words of others, and the repetitive nature of the repeated phrase. Mine come from childhood and my interactions with others until the 1990’s when I decided to consciously change the pattern.

These invisible words sabotage everything we do. I do mean EVERYTHING!

Struggling with weight loss? Start by looking at the conversation happening in your head. Look at the comments being made to you by others close to you in your life.

Also, look to your doctor to see if there is any physical issues affecting your ability to lose weight. Or, any medications that are affecting your weight.

Our thoughts affect everything in our lives. Thoughts are energy. Energy is fluid, and affects everything in its vicinity. Our thoughts are powerful. Change our thought patterns, and we will change our life path.

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Look at your self talk. Is it positive and supportive of your life goals? Is it negative and undermining your life goals? Decide if it is the way you want it to be. If not, start to make a change. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Finding Self Acceptance

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In the previous blog post, I wrote about changes in self image, losing weight, and the perception we are going to be noticed. This entry talks about what to do. . .

Yes, I am struggling with my self perception. So, what am I doing about it.

I forced myself to dress in appropriate sized clothing. First, I wore them around the house. Then, I wore them in public. I forced myself to put on the clothing, and go out to a “safe” public place.

Guess what? No one stared. No one noticed. I didn’t feel uncomfortable for long.

Second, I keep telling myself “it’s okay to feel this way.” It is normal to feel tension or fear with something new. Losing weight takes courage. Going out in public with clothing that fits after weight loss takes bravery.

Whether it feels scary or great, it is a big step to acknowledge and embrace all the hard work and determination it took to make these health, fitness, and wellness gains.

Third, say thank you, if some one does notice and compliment on your accomplishments.

Fourth, know that you’ve had the courage to come this far. . .so, you’ve got this!

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Just do it!

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach