Weight Loss Affects Those Around Us

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When we decide to change, it means that all the people around us need to change how they relate to us. The list of change does include weight loss. When we choose to take care of ourselves and lose unnecessary weight, it changes everything in our lives including how the people around us relate to the “new” look.

The easy part is to decide to lose weight. The challenging part is how it will change our lives and the lives of everyone around us. It takes courage to push through the challenges our decisions create in our lives. It’s like dropping a stone into perfectly calm water. The stone represents us, and our decision. The ripples are the effects our changes have in our environment and people in our lives.

A great example of the effects of this change is eating “different” foods or quantities of food through out the day. If living alone, this has little or no daily impact on another person. If living with a partner or family, these changes effects each of them. Are they willing to be supportive in the changes, or do they want everything to stay the same? Staying the same usually translates into no weight loss. . .

Another example is finding time to exercise. By taking time to partake in fitness activities, the time needs to come from somewhere. When time priorities shift, it is possible that others will feel “left-out” or of less valued.

It is important to define the changes that need to happen to support the goal of weight loss, figure out how to communicate these changes in a diplomatic way, and create a close supportive network of individuals to help encourage the changes.

Wellness to All. . .Karen

What’s in a Number?

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What’s in a Number? Weight is a number. Body measurements are numbers. Calories are counted in numbers. Exercise is tracked in numbers. Time is recorded in numbers.

Our minds grasp numbers, and hang onto them. It takes time for those numbers in our head to change to current information.

I’ve been quiet for a while, because I’m struggling with numbers. My mind struggles to comprehend my current weight. It keeps trying to change the number.

I’ve accomplished reaching the 150’s, yet my mind keeps translating it as the 160’s. This change for me is harder than losing weight!

Why is this important?

It’s important, because we cannot keep the weight loss without thinking the correct weight. In other words, if we cannot believe or accept our new weight, we cannot maintain that weight. Our thoughts are powerful, affects our self image, and controls the changes in our lives. What we think, we are.

I decided to stay in the 150’s to allow my thoughts to catch up with my newly emerging body image. My thoughts need to reflect my actual weight and fitness levels. It’s one of the most important keys to maintaining weight loss.

More later. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

So. . .What Does a Coach Do. . .

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So, what does a Fitness & Wellness Coach do?

If you have been reading and following this blog, you may know that I share my own experiences to inspire others to follow a path to wellness and fitness.

As a coach, I share knowledge, help keep motivation alive, and give insight. I strive to help others attain their personal weight loss and fitness goals. I work to answer questions, and maintain a safe environment and encouraging environment for people to be successful.

I do work with Shakeology and Beachbody products. They work for me, and I’m happy to share.

In addition, I have a background as an athlete, athletic coach, fitness instructor, and personal trainer. I’ve worked with individuals with injuries and special needs. I enjoy helping people overcome their perceived limitations.

I believe that we cannot achieve weight loss and fitness goals without finding balance in our lives. It is a process, not an immediate result. For many, it is unfamiliar territory, and can be intimidating to begin this series of changes.

My goal as a coach is to inspire others to become the best they can be, through nutrition and physical activity. I help people start on this journey. I share different perspectives. I offer encouragement through the plateaus. I share successes, and offer ideas for challenges.

I have the knowledge to give this information through training, working in the fitness industry, and life experiences.

It comes to people first. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Tomorrow Never Comes. . .

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Tomorrow never comes. . .

I learned this from all the people I knew and loved that died in the past few years. They all felt that they could start tomorrow. They could do “it” tomorrow. They had plans for tomorrow. . .

Maybe the person who drove this concept home the hardest was my mom. She battled cancer, and died in 1998 at the age of 56. She didn’t even reach retirement age, and she didn’t accomplish all the plans she had in place for retirement.

Her death was a shock!

Throughout her life, she battled with her weight. I think she tried every diet available. She wanted to lose the weight, and feel better. She would accomplish short term weight loss, but it would all come back (and more).

She taught me that true weight loss required lifestyle change, and self healing (mind, body, and spirit). This was through watching her struggles with her own weight. Her internal “demons” won the battle, and she succumbed to her illness.

Her tomorrow never came. . .

I chose to change. I strive to be in the present. I want to live past 56. I want to climb mountains at 70. I believe that I can live a healthy and fulfilling life. I changed my lifestyle. I’m passing that on to my immediate family.

I know that my decision to change could cost me my family of origin. I know that they may not be able to accept me after I change. I also know that anything is possible!

I know all too well. . .Tomorrow Never Comes. . .

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Think about what is important to you. Do you want to accomplish this in your lifetime? Is there something stopping you from accomplishing this event? If so, do you want to change the situation?

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Then There Was Wildfire Smoke. . .

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First came the heat wave. . .then the wildfire smoke. . and a week or so disappeared.

Time is an abstract we tie our life events too. A week seems like a really long time to not workout, but it is far better to take care of your body.

Actually, our bodies need rest time to adjust to all the changes we make, whether it is weight loss, adding a exercise, or changing dietary intake. It’s easier to make changes and allow our bodies to adjust, than a continuing barrage of change. It feels better mentally too.

I make the changes, push myself hard, allow my body to rest, and come back with greater results than if I continually push myself.

I’ve had a week rest from my exercise plan, which is walking 4 to 6 miles 3 to 5 times a week. The smoke and heat made it unhealthy to continue.

What I love about taking a break like this is that I cannot wait to get back to walking. I cannot wait for the smoke to clear. My body feels ready to take on the next step in my weight loss and fitness plan.

I maintained the weight that I have lost to this point. I have lost 32 pounds since March. My self image is catching up with my body changes. I love what I see in the mirror, and am adjusting to the knowledge that I can wear a size M comfortably. I cannot even imagine what I looked like 32 pounds heavier.

My body feels rested and ready for the next 10 to 15 pounds. This makes it easier to shed the unwanted weight, and continue on this lifestyle path. I do have a plan for the last bit of weight loss and fitness changes.

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Look at the changes you are making in your life. Do you like them? Do you want to keep them? If you could change them, what would they look like? Think about it. . .then decide if you want the make the changes. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

 

Weight Loss Takes Time

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We’re in the heat of the summer, and realistically it’s time to start thinking about weight loss for the Holidays. It takes time to divest one’s self of the extra pounds that gather around the middle of our bodies, or to gain physical fitness.

Looking to lose a clothing size or two?

Want to keep it off?

It takes some time to accomplish these goals. It requires re-learning how to eat, and nurture your body. These habits take time to become part of your lifestyle. Being a healthy weight and maintaining it requires changes in your life.

It’s easy to lose 10 pounds. It’s easier to gain 10 pounds. How many “10 pound” increments do we gain before we decide to change? One day, we wake up and realize we gained 50, 100, or 200 pounds. It can be depressing and overwhelming.

So, want to lose weight for the Holidays? Want to give yourself the best present ever?

Then, now is the time to start on your journey!

I am coaching a Shakeology Challenge the week after Labor Day. It’s free to join the group. The Shakeology cost depends on how much you purchase. Sample packets are $35 + shipping. A month supply costs $97 + shipping for coaches, and a little more for non-coaches.

The question is. . .Are you ready for a lifestyle change that will help you increase your wellness, self-esteem, and fitness level? Are you ready for your clothes to fit better?

Contact me either here, through Facebook, or send me an email (karen@fitbodyadventure.com).

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Write Your Own Story. . .

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The past is lessons learned. The future holds possible hopes and dreams. The present gives an opportunity of overcome the past, and build the foundation for attaining our dreams.

Fitness and weight loss are a lifestyle.

It may sound naive, but follow your heart. It knows what we are truly passionate about, and the direction our lives need to go. When we listen to ourselves, it is easier to create a lifestyle that sustains healthy weight and fitness.

I talk a lot about lifestyle, so what is it?

Lifestyle is how we choose to live our lives. It includes everything from where we live to what kind of clothing we wear. It is the food we eat, the friends we keep, the relationships we nurture, and the places we vacation.

Does your lifestyle support your desire to lose weight and be fit?

The only person who can answer this question is you.

Personally, my lifestyle isn’t quite there yet, but I’m working on it. I look at it as a work in progress. I do have more times where I smile and feel happy. This shows me that I’m on the right path.

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .What makes you happy and feel alive? Are these “things” important in your lifestyle? Do you want them to be? What would you want to change?

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach