Too Busy?

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The easiest excuse for avoiding weight loss and fitness is “I’m too busy!”

Now, let that sink in a bit.

How can one be too busy to take care of themselves, their health, and their state of being? I think the answer is should be “I’m too afraid to face _______.”

We don’t put on the extra pounds due to being part of the present and enjoying life. The extra pounds come on because of something. It could be an injury, an illness, a health issue, a psychological issue, stress, trauma. . .I think you get the picture.

We store the energy of these “things” in our bodies. It manifests itself as extra weight, physical and/or emotional pain, our attitudes, and in other ways both seen / unseen.

The first step to “finding” the time is to make fitness and wellness a priority. When we decide something is important, we give our time freely to the activity.

There is always time for what we truly want to do. . .

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Is weight loss, wellness, or fitness important to you? If so, are you will willing to invest the time into yourself? Scared? Explore the reasons why through journal writing or other self-exploration activity. Find ways to overcome the fear, and become part of your life. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Holidays & Food Consumption

 

The fourth of July is tomorrow. It’s a great day for picnics, barbecues, fireworks, and outdoor activities. Usually, there is food. . .lots of food, and not necessarily healthy food.

What to do?

Make smart choices.

I avoid hot dogs, but am happy to eat a hamburger. Hot dogs have too much fat and too little nutritional value. I will eat chips, but a small amount. Potato salad is wonderful!

So, it goes to portion sizes, or skipping something else. I tend to eat in moderation. It’s okay to feel a little bit of hunger.

Basically, I’m not going without. I’m taking care of myself, for myself and those I love.

I tend to think about portion sizes. I don’t worry so much about everything needing to be healthy food. I find that if I deny myself the opportunity to choose, I crave the item I’ve band from my diet. I guess it’s true that we want what we cannot have. . .

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Have a wonderful holiday! Eat food you enjoy! Work on controlling the portions, and don’t worry about the rest! Remember moderation. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

 

Doing What You Love!

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While your reading this, I’m on the Oregon Coast teaching a weekend long digital photography workshop. I LOVE what I DO!

I’m a professional photographer and freelance writer by day, and fitness & wellness coach by night! In between, I work as a professional house cleaner and in medical billing. Even when you follow your dreams, you need to make sure that the bills are paid and there is food on the table.

I’ve made a conscious choice in each of my money earning opportunities. I am grateful for each. It all works with my lifestyle.

In addition, I help my disabled husband and teenage son through their challenges and growth opportunities.

This is my chosen Lifestyle! I could not survive 40 hours a week in a corporate cubical. Been there. . .Done that!

What about you?

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Are you happy? If not, what would make you happy? What would it take to make it happen? Are you willing to take those steps?

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Letting Go of Stress & Weight Loss

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One of the biggest byproducts of our modern, industrial world is stress, and there is plenty of it going around right now. Stress plays a big role in eating and weight loss.

Stress interferes with all aspects of our lives.

It affects our attitudes and adds to moods. It increases depression and anxiety. It taps into our basic survival skill set, and amplifies our emotions.

It can trigger binge eating and loss of sleep. We forget about our good eating and exercise habits that are being built, because the stress can become overwhelming. It can consume our energy, and leave us feeling drained.

So, how do we combat it?

Focus on what is important. Make conscious decisions on how you are going to spend you life energy.

Define the stress by asking yourself questions:

How big is the issues?
Is it an immediate threat?
Will it hurt you or your family?
Can you affect it?
Is it really important?
Is it a small thing blown out-of-proportion?

Stress can be lessened by knowledge. Stress sabotages weight loss and fitness goals by distracting you from what is important in your life.

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Is your life filled with stress? Then, take time to define what is causing the stress. Ask yourself the questions listed above. Then, decide what you want to work with, and what can wait.

Note: For those struggling with figuring out what is important and not important, I find this book helpful – The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, by Steven Covey.

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

These Clothes are Too Little for Me!

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I did a clothing closet purge this past weekend. I tried on the clothing before deciding whether to keep or give away. I kept looking at the smaller sized thinking “there’s not enough fabric in these pieces to fit me!”

I was wrong!

The smaller sizes fit. I wasn’t in need of yards of fabric to cover my body. It was an amazing revelation! If I didn’t experience it myself, I wouldn’t have believed it.

My last winter coat that I could barely zip was too big. It was a size Large.

The tiny little size 12 hip-hugger jeans did fit. . .but their so LITTLE!

So, out went my large and extra-large clothing! I’m not going to be that size again, so why keep the clothing?

Out with the Old and In with the New. . .new clothes, new attitude & new me!

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Try on All the clothing in your closet. See what fits well, almost fits, and is too big. Let go of some (or all) of the clothing that is too big. Losing weight and keeping it off means that those larger sizes will never fit you right again.

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Breaking Through Preconceived Notions

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Changes can be subtle or over-whelming. The only thing constant in life is change. We change from moment to moment every day. Change is a part of living, and being in the present moment.

This past weekend brought a major insight into conscious view. Everything that I’ve ever believed in, wanted to do, or make goals to accomplish was shadowed by unhealthy, negative messages from my childhood. Basically, someone else’s life view was overshadowing my ability to accomplish anything.

Their attitudes reflected in my choices, ability to complete tasks, and ultimately my health decisions.

WOW!

So, does this mean that I am not responsible for my actions?

No!

It means that I’ve finally learned whatever lesson I needed to learn to move on with my life. It’s such a relief to acknowledge and release all the negativity that I’ve been carrying around.

The results?

I dropped 1.4 pounds since acknowledging, accepting, and releasing these road blocks in my life. I feel years younger! I can smile again, and it feels like a smile.

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Take time to look at your current lifestyle. Is it what you envisioned? If not, look and see what is blocking you from creating the lifestyle of your design. Remember to be patient, because it may take time for the information to come to the conscious level of your mind.

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Remember to Play

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As adults, we forget to play. I don’t mean going to the movies or eating at a restaurant. I really mean play!

When was the last time you walked on the beach, and looked at all the life surrounding you? When did you play in the water? Do you take your shoes off, and feel the sand between your toes?

These activities re-connect us with ourselves. We spend so much time being an “adult” in the modern world, we forget to honor ourselves through play.

Playing could be hiking in the mountains, tent camping in the desert, or beach combing. Each of us is unique in our definition of play. Do you remember how to play?

To Play or Not to Play. . .Tis the Question. . .

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Do you participate in activities that could be defined as play? If not, think about why. Decide if you want to make this change in your life. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

From Athlete to Obese to Healthy

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Through out my life, I’ve never felt good about myself. I was an athlete in my teenage years. I went from athlete to coach and instructor. I still didn’t feel good about myself. I pushed and kept moving forward, never realizing the power of self-talk.

Then, I changed. I realized that I was sabotaging myself in all my life endeavors. It’s taken years, but worth every moment of effort.

So. . .

Self talk seeps up from our subconscious to a quiet, constant whisper in our minds. We may or may not even hear it.

It is the thought “I can never get it right” or “How stupid of me” or “Why does this always happen to me.”

These thoughts stem from the words of others, and the repetitive nature of the repeated phrase. Mine come from childhood and my interactions with others until the 1990’s when I decided to consciously change the pattern.

These invisible words sabotage everything we do. I do mean EVERYTHING!

Struggling with weight loss? Start by looking at the conversation happening in your head. Look at the comments being made to you by others close to you in your life.

Also, look to your doctor to see if there is any physical issues affecting your ability to lose weight. Or, any medications that are affecting your weight.

Our thoughts affect everything in our lives. Thoughts are energy. Energy is fluid, and affects everything in its vicinity. Our thoughts are powerful. Change our thought patterns, and we will change our life path.

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Look at your self talk. Is it positive and supportive of your life goals? Is it negative and undermining your life goals? Decide if it is the way you want it to be. If not, start to make a change. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Finding Self Acceptance

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In the previous blog post, I wrote about changes in self image, losing weight, and the perception we are going to be noticed. This entry talks about what to do. . .

Yes, I am struggling with my self perception. So, what am I doing about it.

I forced myself to dress in appropriate sized clothing. First, I wore them around the house. Then, I wore them in public. I forced myself to put on the clothing, and go out to a “safe” public place.

Guess what? No one stared. No one noticed. I didn’t feel uncomfortable for long.

Second, I keep telling myself “it’s okay to feel this way.” It is normal to feel tension or fear with something new. Losing weight takes courage. Going out in public with clothing that fits after weight loss takes bravery.

Whether it feels scary or great, it is a big step to acknowledge and embrace all the hard work and determination it took to make these health, fitness, and wellness gains.

Third, say thank you, if some one does notice and compliment on your accomplishments.

Fourth, know that you’ve had the courage to come this far. . .so, you’ve got this!

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Just do it!

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Being Noticed. . .

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I haven’t been this weight for years! It feels good, except. . .

I can now wear smaller clothing. It feels great, except. . .

I am healthier, and notice a big difference in my energy levels. I love it, except. . .

Ever feel or say these words? I am. I am everyday right now. I look in the mirror, and I’m beginning to see that I’m smaller than before. I don’t know what to do.

My mind has this image of me 25 pounds heavier. It keeps trying to fit me into clothing a size or two too big for my current weight. I feel uncomfortable in clothing that fits.

People might see me. . .

I’ve been hiding behind the facade of extra weight. I thought people wouldn’t see me. It was a safe place to be. . .really?

Think about it. . .people don’t notice you when carrying around extra weight? One can hide behind the obesity? Really?

The question becomes. . .what is the real issue?

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .Take a Good look in the mirror. What do you see? Think about it, and decide if that is how you want to believe. We have the power to change our beliefs. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

Mirror Mirror on the Wall

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“Mirror, mirror on the wall. Who’s the fairest of us all.”

This quote from Snow White gives an insight about societal views about female self and self awareness. This is what I grew up. I was deeply influenced by Disney movies, Barbie dolls, and family attitudes about being a girl.

Girls are exposed to many avenues that help form their ideas about self, such as movies, cartoons, toys, and family attitudes. These “things” form the foundation of our individual view regarding what it means to be an adult woman.

We carry these ideals with us, and some are detrimental to our health and well-being.

Often, we are unaware of these subconscious beliefs, and they interfere with our ability to successfully lose weight or gain fitness.

Years ago, I taught a women’s weight training class. It was eye-opening for me to hear the comments about muscles being unfeminine. First, women do not gain muscle like men, due to our differing hormonal make-up. Second, muscle is healthy, and helps keep us healthy.

Muscle burns more calories. It keeps our bones stronger. They help us walk up a flight of stairs. Even our hearts are a muscle.

So, muscles are as important for women as they are for men!

Challenge for Those Who Accept. . .take time to document in a journal what makes you feel uncomfortable about weight loss and fitness. Look at what you wrote. Think about it. Where did the ideas come from? Make a conscious choice to keep or discard the thoughts.

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach

The Secret to My Weight Loss

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I’ve been asked the secret to my weight loss.

I think it begins with the idea that it’s a Mind + Body + Spirit = Fitness equation.

I believe that I can and will lose the weight. There is no obstacle that will get in my way! No excuse that can stop me! No person that can wield influence over the outcome outside myself. It is a blind, unyielding belief that this is happening, and happening now!

It comes down to pure determination and extreme focus. It is the most important thing in my life right now. This is something I cannot put off until tomorrow or the next day. If I do, it will never happen.

I say thank you for all my weight loss gains, for the great food I put into my body, and simply being alive for another day. It doesn’t matter if the scale says 2 pounds heavier than the previous. It is merely an indicator to my progress, and anything less than what I started out weighing is progress!

Our body will naturally fluctuate in weight. It is natural. It will plateau at specific weights. All this means is that the body is adjusting to the weight changes. This is an important part of weight loss. It should be expected, not dreaded. I’ve reached plateaus several times in this journey. I just keep believing and saying thank you!

My family understands. They want me to be healthy and happy. They are supportive in this decision. They are even willing to change their dietary intake (types of foods). They are feeling better too.

Challenge to Those Who Accept. . .Examine your attitude towards your weight loss. decide if it suits your goals, and if you want to change them. Decide if you would like to join me on my next weight loss adventure online in July. . .

To Wellness for All. . .Karen

Fitness & Wellness Coach